It’s 2 and a half months into my eating disorder recovery and I’m doing very well. I’m to the point where I eat when I’m hungry and don’t obsess about whether I should or not. I think one thing that’s helping is that I’m happy in my life. I have hobbies and goals again. There was a long time where I wasn’t motivated or excited about anything like I normally am. Nothing held my interest, I just felt flat emotionally. When I’m doing well, I’m generally a very happy person that enjoys life. That disappeared for awhile, and I was indifferent about everything. Last Christmas was the first time in my life that I didn’t care one way or another about the holidays. Normally I get so excited over the them, like crazy excited! I’m sure the med changes have helped a lot. Now that I’m stable mentally I’m able to fully enjoy my life again.
So back to the recovery part, I still worry about my weight, but I’m not obsessed about it. I’m not doing stupid, dangerous things to be a certain weight anymore. Finding things outside myself has helped immensely. My faith, taking walks/being outside, art, music, and other hobbies, I have actual interests besides what I weigh for once. I was so wrapped up in my ridiculous goal to be the “perfect” weight that the rest of my life was put on the back burner. I may have gained some recently with a medication increase but it’s not the end of the world.
I’m just me and I’m learning to be okay with that. 🙂
I started getting obsessed with my weight again, not eating enough, overly active. I recognized it quickly though and have consciously been making sure I don’t do that and make better decisions. I understand recovery from eating disorders isn’t linear, and nobody’s perfect, so falling back into old habits sometimes happens. It’s hard to change something that’s been part of your life for 7 years. I’ve been reading through different books on the subject and I realize I do have things in my life that are more important than my weight, much more important things. I love life, love my family (including my pets!) and friends. I have a lot more to live for than spending my days trapped in the obsession of weight and calories.
Hello! I haven’t posted in quite awhile. I had some medication changes for schizoaffective/bipolar and was struggling pretty badly with my eating disorder but I’m recovering now!
I’m determined to get better, and am working hard at it. I had a serious wake up call recently.
Anyway, it’s now spring, and I already miss fall and winter but I am enjoying the sunshine I’ll admit. Thankfully it’s not too hot here yet, I really dislike hot temps, I love the snow and cold weather.
I ended up having to take a break from school and am going to be working on getting a part time job, the plan is to start taking classes again in the fall.
Sorry for not posting in so long, just have had a lot going on but I plan to be more active on here now that I’m more stable 🙂
I got this book the other day at a local used bookstore I go to often. I have read it before but it was a long time ago so I’m going through it again. I was happy and surprised to find it there because it was actually on my list for mental health related books I wanted to buy. I’ve had very good luck finding good eating disorder recovery related books there in their psychology section. Another one I found and bought recently was “Women Food and God” by Geneen Roth. And awhile back I purchased “The Eating Disorder Sourcebook” by Carolyn Costin (Third Edition). They have amazing prices too, all of these books were just $2 each and in great condition. I love that place!
I’ve been struggling with recovery lately and I’m hoping to get inspired and start making more progress. It’s hard, much harder than I ever imagined. It’s more than stopping the behaviors, which of course is difficult in itself, the thoughts are hard to fight and they’re constantly there.
I was diagnosed the other day with a type of silent GERD (gastroesophageal reflux disease). I was experiencing chronic dry coughing which lasted a month and soreness/irritation in my chest and throat. At first I thought maybe I was getting sick because it’s the flu/cold season so I was surprised that it lasted so long. I was also confused because I wasn’t experiencing any flu or cold symptoms, usually the only time I ever cough is when I have a bad cold or something like bronchitis, plus I’m not and have never been a smoker. My main concerns were that it was driving me crazy, coughing all day, giving me headaches from doing it so much and I was worried maybe I had some sort of upper respiratory infection and I didn’t want to get people around me sick. I’m in college so when I have class part of the time I’d be coughing and the other part of the time I’d be trying to hold it in which is very uncomfortable of course! It was annoying to me so I’m sure it was annoying to others.
When I went to the doctor they diagnosed me with GERD. At first I didn’t understand because I thought GERD was strictly when someone experiences acid coming up into the mouth frequently which I have experienced before but not in a long time. They explained to me what silent GERD and how it can cause irritation in the chest and throat area and result in chronic coughing. They said it is likely that it was caused by the many years of bulimia. I was prescribed something for it and I haven’t experienced all the coughing and barely any irritation in my throat or chest for the first time in quite awhile. It’s such a relief!
I am so glad that I finally stopped the binge/purge behavior about 2 months ago. It went on for around 5 years. Purging had caused a lot of damage to my teeth over time and I always told myself I’d stop before anything else happened but continued convincing myself that I had been doing it for so long and hadn’t had any other kinds of problems so it was unlikely anything else would be affected by it. Of course, that’s completely illogical thinking. I’m glad it’s over and that I won’t cause any further damage, there’s a long list of very serious health problems resulting from bulimia, the worst being death. This motivates me to continue on my recovery. I hope anyone who’s struggling with bulimia reaches out to help from someone and takes the first step toward recovery. Take things one step at a time, your health and happiness is much more important than the effort to avoid gaining weight.
Photo taken by me in the summer of 2018 at a local rose garde,